Are we moving too fast? ( i know it's long, but i REALLY need advice!!)?

If you feel uncomfortable at any time, slow things down. The progression of your relationship has to be at a speed that's comfortable for both of you. And don't have with him before you guys can comfortably discuss . You should know if he's also a virgin and if not, if he's been tested for STDs. If you can't openly discuss it with him, you're not ready for it.